Truth be told no one says sign me up for a healthy dose of suffering. If God came and said to us, would you be willing to go through a season of suffering so I can produce some change in you, we would probably say No thank you.
But imagine Jesus as a young boy reading the book of Isaiah and noting the few passages that tell of the messiah and the suffering he would endure. How did it make him feel? What kind of conversations did he have with Father God about his role that would come one day. We can be assured that Jesus endure a lot of suffering growing up, so we can be assured that our Savior can identify with us and our times of hurt and pain.